(not to derail the conversation because it's really good, i just gotta quick question)

so today i read nada gordon & gary sullivan's epistolary email poem book, Swoon and it was HOT. it made me want to completely dismantle my sonnets. they are too boxed up & controlled. i want expansiveness. but that's the point of the sonnet, that it's a box. should i keep going, or explode them? since it's probably not interesting to anyone else, please reply to me @ jessea.perry@earthlink.net if you're just possibly feeling generous and/or bored.